More Than Just an Event
We’ve always believed the people make the party. Everything else is just the setting.
Meet Brad & Jaime
We've been married for over 25 years and have spent more than two decades meeting some truly amazing people through the lifestyle. Along the way, we've built lasting friendships, shared unforgettable moments, and learned that the people are what make it all worthwhile.
Mile High After Dark started because we wanted a place where good people could come together, relax, have fun, and enjoy being around others who appreciate the same things we do.
Whether you're attending your first social gathering or you've been part of the lifestyle for years, our goal is simple: create events that are welcoming, well-hosted, and filled with people you'd actually want to spend an evening with.
Already curious? Click the banner above to join us on Kasidie.
Why Join Kasidie?
Let's be honest... nobody likes hearing about an event after it's already happened.
Kasidie is the easiest way to stay in the loop, RSVP to events, meet other members, and see what's coming up next. It's where we share event details, announcements, and all the fun stuff that doesn't always make it to social media.
If you're planning to join us, it's the best seat in the house.
Why Party With Us?
Because life's too short for boring weekends.
We love great conversations, spontaneous adventures, and the kind of nights that start with "We'll only stay for an hour" and somehow end with new friends and stories you'll still be laughing about next month.
That's the energy behind Mile High After Dark.
Grab a drink. Come say hello. And meet some amazing people.
What To Expect
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🥂Hosted Social Experiences
Meet & greets, cocktail socials, themed gatherings, and overnight experiences designed to bring people together naturally.
đź”’Privacy & Respect
Discretion and respect are fundamental to our community and expected from every guest.
đź”’Consent Required
Every guest is expected to respect personal boundaries, communicate clearly, and accept rejection gracefully. No pressure, no entitlement, and no exceptions. "No" is a complete sentence, and any behavior that ignores or pressures others will not be tolerated.
🤝Genuine Connections
Whether you're new to the lifestyle or have years of experience, our events encourage conversation, friendship, and authentic connections.
✨No Pressure
There is never any expectation to participate beyond your comfort level. Many guests attend simply to socialize and meet new people.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Mile High After Dark is a private lifestyle community for open-minded adults seeking genuine connections, unforgettable experiences, and a welcoming social environment. Our events bring together people who value respect, authenticity, and meaningful interactions.
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Absolutely not. Participation is always a personal choice. Many guests attend simply to socialize, make new friends, and become familiar with the community. There is never any pressure or expectation.
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Yes. In fact, many of our guests attend their very first lifestyle event with us. We strive to create a comfortable, welcoming atmosphere where newcomers and experienced members alike can feel at ease.
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Kasidie helps us keep event information, RSVPs, and other community updates in one place. It also allows other members to connect before and after events while maintaining their privacy.
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Yes. Privacy and discretion are extremely important to us. We work hard to create an environment where guests feel comfortable, respected, and able to enjoy themselves without concern.
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Dress expectations vary by event and will always be included in the event details. Whether it's a casual meet and greet, cocktail social, themed party, or overnight experience, we encourage guests to dress appropriately for the occasion and feel confident in their own style.
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Many events will be open to approved single men. Availability varies by event and attendance is typically limited to help maintain the atmosphere and balance of the experience.
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We focus on creating events that feel welcoming and comfortable. Whether you’re attending your first social or have been in the lifestyle for years, our goal is simple: bring together respectful adults, encourage genuine conversation, and create an atmosphere where people can relax and enjoy themselves without pressure or expectations.